The art of making friends can be summed up in a single word: rapport. In the same way, the art of becoming popular also can be summed up in a single word: attitude. In this article, I'm going to teach you exactly how you can develop the attitude you need if you want to become popular

Having attitude is a characteristic that comes from a lot of different beliefs and values you have, as attitude is not a single characteristic but can be defined as a certain personality type.

The good thing is that you can manage to transform yourself into an person with attitude easily, if you wish to; that's because attitude is not written in your DNA, it comes from the way people learn to expose themselves to the world and the beliefs they incorporate in their personalities as they grow up.

To be the life and the soul of the party, you have to love to talk to people. You have to love to make people laugh. But most of all, you must love to hear the sound of your own voice! Because the truth is that most people are scared of talking about interesting subjects in a party, so you'll have to take up that position and talk, talk, and talk.

Attitude comes into play here... What if you talk too softly because you have the belief that "being loud is disrespectful"? You won't be heard, your jokes won't hit them with the same power and you'll be just another person in the party.

That's why becoming popular is the same as having a popular attitude. It's because you'll have all those little beliefs conspiring into making you a great conversationalist and a great person to hear.

BUt what about beliefs?

Sometimes the effect of a belief is positive, and sometimes it's negative. What you should try doing is to weed out all the beliefs that have a negative effect (even if you truly believe them, they are not being helpful) and cultivate positive effect ones.
This way, you can transform yourself into a completely different person with completely different attitude about the world, about yourself, and about other people.

So what are the main personality traits of a charismatic?

• Talkative
• Funny
• Confident

My next three articles will be devoted to these attitudes, and how to develop them and tune them to your persona. By the way, you should join my newsletter: I'll teach you some exclusive techniques if you want to change some beliefs easily and quickly!